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Sunday, February 26, 2012

Little Kidz: Taurus moon


The Taurus moon child likes comfort and stability. All children need stability to some degree ( chaos can do interesting things ), but this child needs it the most. He needs affection, but not in the same was as a Leo moon child. He needs a mom/dad that is always there for him when he needs it most. He needs affection but not too much of it. 
She likes comfort. She will want you to read her a bedtime story so her imagination can go wild. She sometimes can be materialistic. All children love the toystore, but she sometimes may place too much emphasis on material things. “Whomever has the most toys wins.” 
He likes his favorite foods. He has his comfort foods. He could be a picky eater. Or he could go in the other direction, being a complete foodie! Either way, food could be an issue to him. 
She has a stubborn streak to her. When she means “no,” she means no. It may be a hassle to try to get her to see things your way. However, when she says she will do something, she’ll do it whether it’s picking up a mess she made, or a math work sheet from school. She can be fixed and does not change her opinions about things easily, whether it be a mean teacher, a dumb friend, or a boyfriend of yours she doesn’t like. The stubbornness is her best quality, but also her worst. 
He can be possessive of his toys and food. If he has leftovers and you eat it, then it’s likely you’re going to get an evil glare. He doesn’t always like to share his toys and he is possessive of what is “his”, but this can depend on anything else in his second house. But he can learn to share. 
She likes to have fun, but within her own boundaries. She isn’t going to try new things at once, since she is a cautious child. She moves on to one new thing and then builds on as she moves forward. It is not wise to push her to do things she does not like to do. She does need to get out of her comfort zone, but at her own pace. 
He could have a lazy streak to him. While he can pick up after himself sometimes when you beg him to do it, he’d rather sit back and watch TV, or play video games. In better news, he can be a mellow child who does not get angered easily. But when he does get angry, watch out for one volcano of a temper tantrum! 
She can sometimes be motivated to do chores if she gets money. While kids do not completely understand money, they do understand that if they help out around the house, they could be “rewarded” via money or a new toy. You may see her savvy about money. She may like to save her money to get something real nice. When she gets something, she takes good care of it. She appreciates the finer things in life. 
He could be shy at first. A little withdrawn. But he’s sociable when he wants to be. He is likeable and friendly. Sometimes he doesn’t do anything out of the ordinary, but he is stable and reliable. 

Thursday, February 23, 2012

Update


A month ago I wrote “Little Kidz Aries Moon.” I do still plan on continuing finishing the series, but it won’t be as involved as the last one. I say that because that post took two hours to write, and so much time. I like astrology, but I have other duties in life like school and work. My schooling is important to me. I’m studying nutrition and I like it alot. I love astrology, but nutriton is my other passion. 
The “Little Kidz” will continue going through Moon signs. They will be detailed, but they will not be a dissertation. 
But remember when you’re reading these they will pertain to people, but Moon signs are still individualized by aspects and house placements. 
So the “Little Kidz” blogs will just be on the Moon signs only. 
I’m hoping to get some other interesting blogs in, like about eating disorders, other synastry issues, and things of that nature. 
E-mail me at totefee@gmail.com if you have any ideas of what you want me to blog about. 
Also, check “Blog Archives” for all the other things i’ve written

THE QUINCUNX


The Quincunx is when two planets are 150 degrees from each other ( with an orb of 8 degrees or less. I go by 8 degrees but some people think up to 10 degrees is significant. And that is a PERSONAL choice. It's up to you! ) 
An example of a quincunx is when someone's Mars in Aries/6 degrees is quincunx the Venus in Scorpio at 8 degrees. That leaves an orb of 2-ish. Well, that's what I personally have in my chart, although those are simply rough estimates. ( But good enough ). 
My drives/desires/ambition are glossed with an Aries tone. My Mars also falls into my 1st house. I have many Aries and Mars-ish qualities in my personality. I can be very restless ( Mars square Uranus ) and anxiety prone, but these anxieties are heightened when I get impatient/frustrated/angry. I get angry easily and I show it easily, but I also calm down easier. I dont usually hold a grudge, but I am capable of it if someone fucks with me bad. But if someone does something not too bad, I'm not going to hold a grudge. 

Venus in Scorpio wants commitment, devotion, passion, and emotional depth. Mars in Aries wants to get on with it and is direct and sometimes blunt. Combine the two in the quincunx and they do NOT understand each other at all. 
I feel like I am an oddity when it comes to relationships, especially with this aspect. I do think my love nature and my desires/drive do not understand each other. I have clear motives. I never try to hide my motives completely, but I can be subtle about what I want in a weirdly direct way. If you get what I'm going.. when I first met my boyfriend, I initiated everything like a good Aries Mars would, but my motives were a relationship. Its hard to explain. 
I want deep commitment, but I like "me" time and doing "me" things. This is a characteristic of everyone, but my desires and goals are "me oriented." Does this interfere with my relational Scorpio side? 

Anyway, the quincunx whatever planets are involved can be difficult. It is much more difficult, in my opinion, than the square or opposition. The square created tension, but you;ll need to be able to deal with the conflict and move on. Squares make your life easier once you get over them. Oppositions will need to be moderated; you find moderation and you're good to go. Quincunx do not understand each other at all! Adaptations will need to be made! 

Some people have Moon-Saturn quincunx! That means the Saturn nature does not understand the Moon's nature. This can lead to loneliness and lack of emotional expression in some cases. 

In synastry, the quincunx can suck. Say someone has a Moon in Leo at 2 degrees and the other person has Venus in Capricorn at 3 degrees. The one person's Moon in Leo wants praise, love and affection and above all, attention. Leo moons like attention. They are not all attention whores, but they need love and praise. The Venus in Capricorn person is committed, yet almost standoffish and cautious when it comes to love. Sometimes they commit because they have put so much investment in the relationship. Venus in Capricorn is more practical when it comes to love and Moon in Leo may not be happy with what they're getting. Basically, the one person's emotional nature does NOT understand the other's relational/romantic/love nature. 

If you have a quincunx that doesn't mean your relationship is doomed. Just like anyone who has a bunch of squares or oppositions. Usually, there are good beneficial aspects to help out the relationship. Venus-Jupiter, Moon-Jupiter, Jupiter-Pluto, Sun-Moon, Moon-Saturn, Venus-Saturn, etc etc can be good.