Scorpio or Pluto influenced people & Relationships

Today I’m going to talk about relationships. Any relationships, really, but they must be close relationships. This article will mostly talk about romantic or serious ones, but also serious friendships as well.

First off, when I mean Scorpio influenced the person has at least two Scorpio planets. But even if you have one Scorpio planet, it may not be dominant but the traits will come out in some form or another. ( My only Scorpio personal planet is Venus, but it’s in the 8H and conj Pluto, which adds strength to it ).

Some people may not have too many Scorpio placements, but might have one. However, they could have multiple Pluto aspects to their personal planets. Pluto in the 8H is also a strong indicator, or having 8H placements. Pluto on an angle is also important; Pluto in the 1H, 4H, 7H, or 10H.

Basically, if you’re heavily Scorpio or simply have Pluto aspecting many of your planets/ or have 8H placements, then this is the article for you.

You’re not all about superficial casual friendships or relationships. You’ll enter into one, but you resent yourself for it. There are trust issues, perhaps resulting from childhood rejections, and this is something you need to get over. Some trust issues are good, though. We’re the type of people who aren’t going to naively trust someone and get screwed over, although it might have happened once. We want to make sure that when we make a new friend or a future boyfriend/girlfriend, we want to know they are worth it and in for the long haul.

We feel like shit if we feel underappreciated. We analyze every little thing a partner does, sometimes to the point we go crazy. We are extremely loyal, unless someone really pisses us off, and we expect loyalty in return.

We’re good friends, unless we’re backstabbed. When we’re backstabbed, we cut the person out of our lives for good. We are capable of leaving a friendship or relationship and not looking back, but the letting go part hurts. We want to hang out, but we know we must burn the bridge and let go. We often resent ourselves for giving in to other people.

Some of us have dominance issues, which can tear apart relationships. Some men with these aspects want control over their lovers, because they are insecure on the inside. Some may use manipulation, because they fear being rejected or the woman leaving them.

Some of us may have found ourselves using manipulation to get what we want. Sometimes it worked, other times it didn’t. We have lost and we do not like that, but we need to learn that we lose people sometimes.

Some of us may have a compulsive need to control our emotions. We don’t like appearing vulnerable. We are aware of our feelings and how they impact us, but we don’t like to show them. Sometimes our emotions erupt like a volcano. We can be hot and cold, like fire and ice. We can be passionate and we can be apathetic.

When we love someone, we want their heart and soul. We expect to be given their heart and soul. We can be jealous of anyone who gives our sweetie attention. We’re big on boundaries. We expect devotion and love. We expect intelligence. We seek the truth and probe to get the truth.

Jealousy can get the better of us. Some of us are a slight possessive and other of us want our partner to be our prize. Jealously often rips us apart. We can be cruel when we’re mad. We can say cruel things.

If we feel slighted, our partner gets the cold shoulder or a glare, or a “talk.” We often know when a relationship is going to end because we can just “feel” it. We sometimes hold on longer than we should. We know when someone is into us and when someone is not.

We sometimes burn bridges when we want to end a friendship or relationship. We want nothing to do with them. We remember them, though. Their memory lingers.

Relationships change and transform us for the better. But we gain experience as we get older and become better people for it.